Oh, that sort of hits in a very viscerally real way, doesn't it? Yu has moved past a lot of his aversions to commitment, but -- he never really thought about what might happen if some of those people leave. Mikey, Yosuke, even Scott or Kotone...would he be prepared to make the same declaration if any of them left? Would it still feel worth it?
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That's something he's going to have to unpack. Later.]
That's fair, too. There's nothing wrong with being friends.
It doesn't feel good to shove aside your own feelings. But it probably doesn't feel good to force it, either. Whatever you decide -- as long as it feels right, to you, it'll be okay.
Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you, Charles.
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Oh, that sort of hits in a very viscerally real way, doesn't it? Yu has moved past a lot of his aversions to commitment, but -- he never really thought about what might happen if some of those people leave. Mikey, Yosuke, even Scott or Kotone...would he be prepared to make the same declaration if any of them left? Would it still feel worth it?
...
That's something he's going to have to unpack. Later.]
That's fair, too. There's nothing wrong with being friends.
It doesn't feel good to shove aside your own feelings. But it probably doesn't feel good to force it, either. Whatever you decide -- as long as it feels right, to you, it'll be okay.
Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you, Charles.